BookShared
  • MEMBER AREA    
  • The Selfishness of Others: An Essay on the Fear of Narcissism

    (By Kristin Dombek)

    Book Cover Watermark PDF Icon Read Ebook
    ×
    Size 29 MB (29,088 KB)
    Format PDF
    Downloaded 696 times
    Last checked 16 Hour ago!
    Author Kristin Dombek
    “Book Descriptions: They're among us, but they are not like us. They manipulate, lie, cheat, and steal. They are irresistibly charming and accomplished, appearing to live in a radiance beyond what we are capable of. But narcissists are empty. No one knows exactly what everyone else is full of--some kind of a soul, or personhood--but whatever it is, experts agree that narcissists do not have it.

    So goes the popular understanding of narcissism, or NPD (narcissistic personality disorder). And it's more prevalent than ever, according to recent articles in The New York Times, The Atlantic, and Time. In bestsellers like The Narcissism Epidemic, Narcissists Exposed, and The Narcissist Next Door, pop psychologists have armed the normal with tools to identify and combat the vampiric influence of this rising population, while on websites like narcissismsurvivor-dot-com, thousands of people congregate to swap horror stories about relationships with "narcs."

    In The Selfishness of Others, the essayist Kristin Dombek provides a clear-sighted account of how a rare clinical diagnosis became a fluid cultural phenomenon, a repository for our deepest fears about love, friendship, and family. She cuts through hysteria in search of the razor-thin line between pathology and common selfishness, writing with robust skepticism toward the prophets of NPD and genuine empathy for those who see themselves as its victims. And finally, she shares her own story in a candid effort to find a path away from the cycle of fear and blame and toward a more forgiving and rewarding life.

    Google Drive Logo DRIVE
    Book 1

    Committed: On Meaning and Madwomen

    ★★★★★

    Suzanne Scanlon

    Book 1

    Crush

    ★★★★★

    Ada Calhoun

    Book 1

    The Prophets

    ★★★★★

    Robert Jones Jr.

    Book 1

    Consent: A Memoir

    ★★★★★

    Jill Ciment

    Book 1

    Jesus’ Son

    ★★★★★

    Denis Johnson

    Book 1

    Seek You: A Journey Through American Loneliness (Pantheon Graphic Library)

    ★★★★★

    Kristen Radtke

    Book 1

    Abandon Me: Memoirs

    ★★★★★

    Melissa Febos

    Book 1

    The Princess of 72nd Street

    ★★★★★

    Elaine Kraf

    Book 1

    So Sad Today: Personal Essays

    ★★★★★

    Melissa Broder

    Book 1

    Água Viva

    ★★★★★

    Clarice Lispector

    Book 1

    Bluets

    ★★★★★

    Maggie Nelson

    Book 1

    Grief Is for People

    ★★★★★

    Sloane Crosley

    Book 1

    The Faggots and Their Friends Between Revolutions

    ★★★★★

    Larry Mitchell

    Book 1

    Building a Life Worth Living: A Memoir

    ★★★★★

    Marsha M. Linehan

    Book 1

    The Captive / The Fugitive (In Search of Lost Time, #5-6)

    ★★★★★

    Marcel Proust

    Book 1

    Monogamy

    ★★★★★

    Adam Phillips

    Book 1

    Liars

    ★★★★★

    Sarah Manguso